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Loving Yourself Forward · Cebu, Philippines

Give $50 a month for a girl in Cebu.

LYF helps girls and young women from urban-poor families in Cebu get through the hard weeks. Each girl has people who know her by name and help her move forward: in school, in math, in her health, and toward an income of her own.

A US 501(c)(3) charity, EIN 99-2398558. See where the money goes.

April 2025 to October 2026

What has changed

75girls supported in October 2026, up from 35 in April 2025
22moved up a grade in school
12graduated
36mothers helped through pregnancy and the first months
13small businesses started

Why help is needed

Why a girl in Cebu needs help

Most of these families have no regular income at all. They get by on an odd job when there is one, help from neighbors, and when that fails, options that put girls at risk. And many of the girls are minors, often on their own: the law limits what they can do and almost no employer hires a minor, so even Metro Cebu's minimum wage of ₱582 (about $9) a day is closed to them. Public school is free, but uniforms, projects, fares and a phone for online class are not. When money runs out, a girl is the one kept home, sent to earn, or left to find her own way, and a medicine or a hospital bill can sink a family for months.

More on the girls' lives

Where your $50 goes

What $50 a month pays for

Across the girls in the study program, $50 a month pays for:

  • Someone who caresStaff in Cebu who teach the lessons, listen, advise, and follow up when something goes wrong.
  • Her study allowance₱250 (about $4) for each week she comes to the study session. She spends it on what her family lacks most that week, usually food, sometimes medicine, school supplies or the water bill.
  • FoodRice and groceries for her family.
  • School costsFees, supplies and school projects.
  • HealthMedicine and checkups when she needs them.
  • FaresGetting to school and to LYF's activities.

$50 a month covers one girl's share of all of it.

Some months a girl needs more for medicine or school, some months less. Your $50 pays one girl's share; it is not tied to one named girl.

A girl from the study program, smiling, sitting outside her home
Girls in LYF's program join the study session online each week.

One story · 2025

Angela needed surgery her family could not pay for.

Her family knew she needed an operation and could not afford it. PhilHealth, the Philippine public health insurance, covers much of a surgery like hers, but the family could not have applied on their own. Eushen, who runs LYF in Cebu, walked them through it, and LYF paid what PhilHealth did not cover. LYF staff were with Angela at each step, from the first checkup to the day she went home.

That is much of what LYF does: find the help that already exists, get the family through it, and pay the gap.

Angela at her first checkup, sitting across a desk from a health worker
The first checkup
Angela in a hospital gown and cap on the day of her surgery
Surgery day
Angela smiling with a patch over one eye
Recovering
Angela back home, sitting on a plastic chair in protective glasses
Back home

More of the girls' stories

Practical lessons

Many study sessions teach one practical thing and end with a short review. Some recent lessons, and how many came:

All the lessons since June

A girl at home, smiling at the cameraA girl with long dark hair, smilingA girl making a peace sign in front of a wall covered in drawingsA girl in the sunlight, with a small smileA girl sitting with her chin on her hand, smilingA girl smiling in a dim room at home

Some of the girls in the study program.

Translated from Cebuano

In their own words

Girls and young mothers in the program recorded short videos about life before LYF and what is different now.

A girl speaking to the camera

One of the girls

“I’m not the same as before. I’m stronger, more confident, and I know myself better. When I have a problem, I know I’m not alone.”

Watch the video

A young mother speaking to the camera

A young mother

“I have more peace now, and I’m stronger. I don’t cry the way I used to.”

Watch the video

A girl speaking to the camera

One of the girls

“They are always ready to listen. They taught me to be strong, to think things through, and to look for ways to help my family.”

Watch the video

More of what they said

Open books

Where the money goes

95¢

Of every dollar LYF spent last year, 95 cents went to the program in Cebu: what the girls and their families received, and the people who teach and mentor them. The other 5 cents paid for bookkeeping, filings and bank fees.

501(c)(3)

Registered in both countries. A US public charity since March 2024 (EIN 99-2398558), incorporated in Delaware, filing with the IRS every year. Its Philippine operation is registered with the Philippine Securities and Exchange Commission (September 2024).

The money in brief, the IRS letter and the Philippine registration

Why LYF exists

Patrick's story

I didn't plan to stay in the Philippines. Initially, I came here to set up a call center for a business. But the more time I spent here, the clearer it became that this is where my heart belongs.

During COVID, I saw the devastating impact of poverty on families and young people. I witnessed teens making heartbreaking decisions just to survive. I helped where I could. But I quickly realized that if I wanted to make a lasting difference, I needed to think longer-term. That's why I founded Loving Yourself Forward.

Read more, and how LYF works

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